"Tapping" The Points
In EFT, these points are stimulated by tapping on them.
Try now tapping the point under your eye, with your index or
index and middle fingers, quite rapidly* about seven to nine
times or as many times as it takes for you to take a normal
breath in and out. The strength of tapping should be
comfortable, but you should be able to feel a resonance from
the tapping spreading out across a reasonable part of that
side of your face.
* I have noticed that different people have different
speeds of tapping. We generally show a tapping speed in line
with the rhythm of "Jingle Bells".
In spite of this, some people develop a kind of
woodpecker action after a while, and others tap quite
slowly. I would suggest that what feels right to you
probably is right for you.
For practice, tap all the points from the Eyebrow to the
Karate Chop point now just to get the feel of doing it.
Contacting The Problem
To direct the releasing effects of the tapping to the
required area, we focus the mind on the problem by using a
statement of the problem: "I am afraid of heights."
Preferably, this is spoken out loud to engage as
much of the neurology as possible and to contact the problem
as directly as possible.
In a moment, take a little time to think about a problem
that you have, a pain, a fear, an illness or perhaps a
phobia, something that always makes you depressed when you
think about it, just generally any negative emotion you are
happy to release now and forever. Choose a statement that
rings true to you, choosing words that make sense to you and
you alone.
The more forthright, direct and truthful you can be, the
more profound a change you will experience.
The Set Up
Now that we've named the problem, we can start with the
Set Up.
For the opening statement, we use the following routine:
Find the sore spot on either side of your chest; rub it
round gently and say:
"Even though I (insert problem statement),
I deeply and completely love and accept
myself."
For example, if you decided your problem was "My back is
killing me", you would say as your Set Up Statement:
"Even though my back is killing me,
I deeply and completely love and accept
myself."
Repeat this three times, rubbing the Sore Spot
continuously as you do so, and please do endeavor to put
some meaning and energy into the "I deeply and
completely love and accept myself" part.
The Round
Following the Set Up, we now tap all the points, starting
from the top (Eyebrow) and ending up with the Karate Chop
Point on the hand.
As you tap each point, repeat a shortened version of
the Set Up Statement which is called the reminder phrase;
so if your set up statement was,
"Even though I hate my boss,
I deeply and completely love and accept
myself",
… you say the reminder (shortened version) phrase:
"I release the hate I feel towards my
boss"
… on each point at the same time as you tap.
The 9 Gamut
This is the middle part in what is sometimes called the
EFT sandwich:
Following tapping all the points about 7 times from the
top of the eyebrow to the karate chop point, you tap
continuously on the Gamut point, and then do the following:
· move your
eyes from the floor to the ceiling without moving
your head and back again.
· move your
eyes from left to right and back again
· move your
eyes in a big circle and back again
· hum - Happy
Birthday To You (or another tune or just a scale)
for about one bar;
· count - one
two three four five
· hum again
Take a deep breath in and out.
As you do these (at first slightly unusual) things*,
repeat the statement in between as best you can to keep
yourself focused on the problem in hand.
Then, repeat the Round one more time, tapping all the
points from the eyebrow to the karate chop point. Take a
deep breath and allow yourself a moment to reflect on how
you feel now.
The eye movements are linked to various brain functions
and the reason for the humming-counting-humming maneuver is
to switch between hemispheres quite quickly; both are
designed to "wake up" your neurology so the tapping can go
to work on the problem.
Testing Your Changes
A great way to ascertain from yourself or others just how
you feel is to put a number on it. The technical term is
taking a SUD Level or SUDS Scale reading, which stands for
Subjective Units of Disturbance.
What that means is you ask yourself:
· On a
scale of 10 to 0, 10 being the highest imaginable
pain/freak out/fear/sadness/dis-comfort, and 0 being
completely calm, pain free, tranquil, relaxed and
happy, how would you rate what you are experiencing
at this moment?
This works for emotions as well as for physical
sensations and even for beliefs which might be a problem:
On a scale of ten to zero:
· how
depressed are you right now?
· how painful
is your leg?
· how bad is
your fear of heights?
· how
distressing is this memory?
· how much do
you hate this person?
Before you begin tapping for any subject or problem,
take the time to take a SUDS rating and make a mental note
of it. Then, when you have completed a Sandwich
treatment, ask the question again to find how much has
changed. It's a good way to be able to assess how well the
treatment has worked and if you need to repeat the
treatment.
Sometimes, the problem can go from as high as 10 to as
low as 0 in a single Sandwich treatment.
More often though, you start with 8 or 9, and after a
round of tapping, the severity is reduced to a 4 or a 5.
This means that the treatment is beginning to work but
there's more to be done.
Testing is a very important part of the EFT procedure;
Subsequent Treatment Rounds
If the original set up statement was something along the
lines of, "Even though I have this problem" and you have
tapped a first round on "this problem", and upon checking
with yourself, this problem is not as severe anymore but
still noticeable, change the start up affirmation to:
"Even though there is still some of this
problem remaining",
or
"Even though I still have some of this
problem".
When you're down to a rating of "Oh its a tiny little bit
now" which would be a 2, 1 or a half on the subjective
rating scale, a third round can be done with the opening
statement of,
"I want to completely overcome this
problem
and I fully and completely accept myself".
And that's it!
It's as simple as that. There's no need for you to worry
about getting it wrong, or getting the wrong statement.
ALL TAPPING YOU DO IS GOOD FOR YOU.
Any tapping you do stimulates the meridians, relaxes you,
calms you and makes you feel a little better, even if you
get totally the wrong opening affirmation and the original
problem has not yet shifted.
Just try again with a different start up phrase, or think
about what the truth about the problem might be.
For more details go to EFT
manual.
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